
The quality of your health and
overall well-being is in direct proportion
to the way you treat yourself.
To love yourself more today
than you did yesterday
improves the quality
of your life
(somewhere, somehow) today.

There is no limiting situation
in your life that will not be improved
with a dose of self-love.
The more massive the dose
the more massive the improvement.

A loving state of mind
intuitively reveals ideas
and a level of self-confidence that
contribute to a life of joy,
while causing the mind and body
to naturally repel illness and dis-ease.

The more loving you are,
the more creative is your mind and
the healthier is your body.
The more you are
angry, fearful and stressed,
the more vulnerable is your body
and limiting is your mind.

But,
you say, you are a loving person.
You go out of your way for
others till it hurts.

You are the first one to sacrifice and
compromise for the sake of someone else.

You think of the needs and feelings
of others before you think of your
own needs and feelings.
And still you struggle at times
and have pain at times.

However,
I reply, love is not going out of your way for
others till it hurts. Love is not sacrifice
and compromise for the sake
of someone else.

Love is not discounting your feelings and
needs. That's self-destruction. That's why you
are sick at times, struggle at times
and are fed up at times.

Self-love is to go out of your way to honor
and respect your feelings and needs.
And then you will stop hurting
and stop struggling.

You hurt and struggle because you deny
and repress what feels good for you
because you think that to honor
your feelings and needs is to
be selfish and inconsiderate
of others.

You hurt and struggle because you expect
others to deny and repress their feelings and
needs for you, because you think that for
others to honor their feelings and needs
is to be selfish and inconsiderate of you.: You cannot help but give the worst of

yourself to others, and not be a pleasant

person others want to be around,

when you are inconsiderate

toward yourself.
You cannot help but give the worst of
yourself to others, and not be a pleasant
person others want to be around,
when you are inconsiderate
toward yourself.

Self-love is to love yourself so much
that you do not depend on
or expect others to deny
their 'SELF' for you.

Depending upon someone else or expecting
others to deny their 'SELF' for you
only leads to disappointment,
which leads to anger,
which leads to
resentment,
which
causes
T-R-O-U-B-L-E.
That starts
with 'T' and rhymes with 'P',
and that stands for
'PROBLEMS '


Look,
you cannot please people who are displeased
with themselves, they will find fault with
you no matter what you do.
NO MATTER HOW MUCH
YOU COMPROMISE!
NO MATTER HOW MUCH
YOU SACRIFICE.
That's just the way they are.

And those who feel pleased and good about
themselves do not need you to please them.
They will love and accept you
without conditions.
Even at those times you screw
up and make mistakes.
That's just the way THEY are.

It is not possible for you
to please or displease anyone.
Them that loves ya
will love ya no matter what.
Them that finds fault with ya
will find fault with ya no matter what.

So you might want to consider
learning to do and be
what's good for you.
Huh?
Yup, that's Self Love.

When you are loving....

it's

ABRAKADABRA,

OPEN SESAME

and

SHAZAM

all rolled into one.

Love is not something you get,

even though it may appear

to be that way at times.

Love is something you give

to yourself and others.

Love is something you express

to yourself and others as;

acceptance,

patience,

understanding,

encouragement,

optimism,

kindness,

empathy,

and

appreciation.

You are either expressing

love or you are expressing

the with-holding of love.

You express

the with-holding of love

to yourself and others

as;

blame,

gossip,

irritation,

impatience,

fault finding,

complaining,

promoting guilt,

discouragement,

and critical judgment of any kind.

You draw to yourself the people

and conditions that represent the

love you are expressing or the love

you are withholding .

You repel from yourself

the people and conditions that

represent what you are not expressing.

It's mathematical, like, 1 + 1 = 2.

It's a formula, like (H2O), two parts

hydrogen and one part oxygen

equals 'water' .

It just IS.

When you are really good

at loving yourself

you diminish the

possibility for

you to struggle

in any area

of your

life.

The only thing the energy

of self-love knows, is to

compel you to

enjoy life to

the fullest

in every

area of

your

life.

The only thing.

skilled

in the art

of loving yourself

is to experience life

in a dimension of joy

and satisfaction that is not

available when love is withheld.

It is not possible

for you to feel the love of others

when you are bad-mouthing

or criticizing yourself.

The more you love yourself the more

you attract loving people into your life....

without even trying. They will come out of

the woodwork. (People..................not termites.)



Self-Love is
acknowledging yourself for
deciding to journey on the
path of self-discovery.
And your journey
becomes more
meaningful and
more joyful.

Self-Love is
investigating with a sense of
curious interest your intuitive
creative urges that are not
grounded in logic or reason.
And the reason is revealed to you.

Self-Love is
remembering with a sense of
relief that already coded in your genes
are your talents, unique gifts, purpose in life
and the ways and means to your fulfillment
when you praise, compliment, appreciate,
honor and respect yourself and others.


Self-Love is
challenging any limiting
concept about yourself and others,
while knowing that the truth of your
unlimited nature will reveal itself to you.
And it does.


Self-Love is knowing with great
confidence that the quality of your life
is the result of what you knowingly and
unknowingly affirm life to be.
And you are more inclined to
affirm a more joyful life.

Self-Love is

realizing that the nature

of the universe is unlimited.

Therefore, no one need suffer,

struggle or compromise their ideals.

Self-Love is acknowledging

your adversaries as unresolved doubts

about yourself. Resolution and peace follow.

Self-Love is acknowledging

the kind and loving people in your

life as demonstrations of the love

you have for yourself. They are!

Self-Love is recognizing and encouraging,

with patience and understanding,

the uniqueness of yourself

as you express yourself

the very best way

you know how,

whatever you

are doing.

And you realize more of the best in life.

Self-Love is

choosing the most expansive

ideas about anyone or anything

at any given moment. And you naturally

gravitate to realities beyond the finite

into unlimited possibilities.

Self-Love is

understanding that

nothing stands in your way for you

to live your life joyfully and abundantly

all of the time except the limiting thoughts,

that are really someone else's limiting thoughts

that you are imitating without even

realizing it. And you are more inclined

to purge other people's limitations

from your belief system.

Self-Love is

understanding that 'struggle' of any

kind is the result of habitually confining

your mind's creativity to its conditioned and

programmed limits that you learned from

others. And you break the habit.

When you enjoy, appreciate, and love
a work of art, a book or a structure, you
are honoring the artist, the author,
the architect. You are nothing
less than a work of art.

When you love yourself you are really

loving and honoring God, or whatever name

you give the Infinite Essence that you are made in the image and likeness of, the artist, the author, the architect of us all.

When you criticize and find fault with

yourself, you are really criticizing God, or whatever name you give the Infinite Essence that you are made in the image and likeness of.

That in and of itself is no sin. It is just a habit based on erroneous data, and blocks you

from the 'more-ness', the 'wonder',

the 'delight' of life.

To be unkind and critical of yourself
is to block from your awareness your
unlimited creative nature. Not too cool.

When God, or whatever name you

give the Infinite Essence you are made

in the image and likeness of, says,

"LET THERE BE LIGHT!',

the light that already is is revealed.

That's because God knows that God is God.

When you are unloving towards yourself

you are affirming that you are not

made in the image and likeness of

...you know what, and you can say,

'LET THERE BE LIGHT',

until the cows come home,

and you will still be

groping in

the dark.

However, when you love yourself enough

to be aligned with the truth of

your Essence, your

word 'becomes'.

Whatever you say is then revealed.

Whether you say;

Let There Be Light,

Let There Be Peace Of Mind,

Let There Be Joy,

Let There Be Prosperity,

Let There Be Loving Relationships,

Let There Be Roses, Lollypops

And Fat Free Chocolate Malts.

Let There Be.....WHATEVER!

Soon, very soon, lack and limitation in all its forms will go the way of the dinosaur as Self-Love sweeps

the planet.

Soon, very soon, hospitals will be turned into bingo parlors, jails

will become bowling alleys,

and the new prestige

professions will be

circus clowns

and magicians.


Self-Love
to the MAXimum
sets your mind free to do
what it does best~
CREATE WITHOUT LIMITS!

A coward is incapable of exhibiting love;
it is the prerogative of the brave.
.......Mahatma Gandhi

Self Love Pledge

I Won't Ever Bother 
With Those Who Would Rather
Find Fault 
With The Me That They See -
If They Won't Accept Me
Or even reject Me,
It's Bye-Bye 
To Them-Them 
From Me-Me.


The poet Robert Browning reminded us that our path is much more about releasing "imprisoned splendor" than discovering anything outside of ourselves.


Got Self Love?

That's a wrap!

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